Comments on: Nomalanga: Women Like Dwayne Wade’s Ex-Wife Ruin it for Others

By: Royalty

Royalty — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 23:39:59 +0000

I am not one to dip in the private affairs of others, but I wish this news was private. Love and living life is so tender. Children need balanced nourishment from the mother and father. Seriously, I pray I never marry, and my husband leaves me for another woman. I pray my first and only marriage last for a life-time.

By: Meek

Meek — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 17:45:49 +0000

First of all all parents are important its just one parent might be more stable than the other. Sio keeps proven the judge right by acting a damn fool. She is the reason for her loss of marriage and kids, not gabrielle who came two years later. Everybody wants to sympathize with her because she lost custody. If she was a real woman and let him be in his kids life when she had them, she would still have custody. He seems to be a good father and the boys looks to be thriving with him. Sio was fine with the other supposedly women he was with when they seperated, but when he got serious with an actress then she started pointing finger at gabby, well what about the man she was with during her marriage. SHE IS NOT iINNOCENT.

By: Smith

Smith — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 17:38:07 +0000

Sid, you are very ignorant regarding the facts surrounding this case. At least, the facts that have been reported in the press, newspaper, magazines, television, blogs, etc. Dwyane Wade has tried every means to deal with his ex-wife and she doesn’t accept anything except what she wants, including ignoring court orders. I don’t know if you are a man or a woman, but you sound like one of those women, who simply thinks that a mother should be the one to raise the kids no matter if she’s not good at it and happens to be the one who is ruining the family. Please grow up!

By: Tira Martin

Tira Martin — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 13:21:01 +0000

I didn’t interfere with my kids and their dad and we didn’t even see eye to eye and had very few words for one another. Very bad relationship, plus his bad habits was not my thing but he didn’t comprehend that so he had to be removed from my family life equations,but that didn’t mean he was not going to be in his kids life. My mother did it to me and I wasn’t able to have relationship with my Father until I was twelve. I know that feeling and refused to let my kids go through that. Up until their dad died a week before hristmas my kids spent as much time possible with their Dad. Being that he lived right across the street from our apartments, which he did to be closer to his children, was even better. No matter what I had to do he kept his kids. He got married a year before he died and to this day his wife still honors his wishes of keeping my kids if need be and we always got along anyway. NO woman should interfere in the relationship of a man an his child unless there is absolutely necessary. You have to be the bigger person because when you child(ren) start asking questions about why their dad never comes around you don’t want to tell them “because I don’t want him around my house”, “I can’t stand your daddy”,etc. In the end the child is not going to blame their dad they will blame the mom that is keeping the dad away, the mom that won’t let them spend quality time with their dad because she is bitter. If you are the one to break off the relationship the you shouldn’t have a reason to be bitter but you should instead have a reason to be better. A better mother, a better individual, breaking off fro a bad relationship should make you a stronger person. If he moves on so what be happy for him and still let him interact with his children because whoever he is in a new relationship with has to accept his kids and as long as she doesn’t violate your children in any way then you shouldn’t interfere.

By: Mo

Mo — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 12:33:25 +0000

Know the facts before you comment on a thing. The child custody case took place in Chicago the home town of both parents not Miami. And his ex-wife had several lawyers quit during the case because they found her difficult to work with. Only the child can determine how important one parent’s relationship is versus another. So don’t just come to the conclusion that just because she’s the mother her role is more important than his. And his occupation has very little to do with any of it. He’s not gone 4-5 months a year playing basketball. They do have home games you know? It’s no different than any other parent being on a business trip.

By: Betty

Betty — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 11:46:24 +0000

some people fail to realize that couples can outgrow each other..and..what was perfect in High school and college..is no longer..Siohvaugh seemingly can’t get over the fact..that.. what once was is no longer..the fact that her nemesis is
a beautiful.accomplised actress has driven her to the point of no return..her behaviour..takes the
phrase..”hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” to another level..it is the compelling force that is driving her..”MOVE ON” You can’t put toothpaste back in the tube..nor can u unring a bell..make a life for yourself..find god or what or whoever can help you to move on..you need professional help..at this juncture..u are good for no one..yourself included..

By: Erica

Erica — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 06:37:39 +0000

Sad all around.Again parents forgetting “what is in the best interest of the children”

By: Nicholaus

Nicholaus — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 06:01:29 +0000

No Nomalanga, this does not “ruin it for others”. The “woman” in question has brought this upon HERSELF. As you accurately stated, there are “trifling” men out there, and this proves that there are trifling women as well. Men know the difference. A good, strong sista ain’t got nothing to worry about. Who she is stands on it’s own. We will see her. She will be respected and loved and appreciated for her contribution to the relationship. Unfortunately, just like women say that all the good men are taken, all the good women seem to be gone as well.
Someone should tell Siohvaugn that there is an opening on Basketball Wives. Now that it looks like she might loose custody of her kids, she’ll have plenty of time to start shit with someone else.

By: Key

Key — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 04:30:02 +0000

No parent is more important than the other. Any parent who is a good parent knows this intimately. Both mothers and fathers contribute to the children different aspects of their personality which is supposed to help them to grow up as mature, level-minded and strong individuals.

The moment I hear a person trying to say that being a “mother” is more important… sorry, but I have to question the logic of the individual. I had three parents that raised me and that included a step-father… I found that my dad and my father shaped and molded me as a woman just as much as my mother.

As for the case of the Wade’s… I am not going to be on the side of a mother who has lost her children in court. For her to lose them meant there was gross misconduct on behalf of the mother to prove she was not fit and most times I have seen unfit mothers still keep their children. So in my opinion… if you lost them it was probably for a damn good reason.

By: Been There

Been There — Thu, 21 Jun 2012 02:31:40 +0000

Until you have walked in her shoes, you can’t say a thing. This woman’s whole family and life as she knew it, has been ripped away from her. Meanwhile, she has to sit back and watch her ex-husband flaunting around his movie star girlfriend and she’s playing mommy to her kids, and they are all riding into the sunset. Yeah, that’s plenty to make a woman snap. And on top of that, she’s fighting against a very wealthy and powerful man throwing his clout around to get his way.This woman is BROKEN to her core.

I agree with Sid. I think DWade just doesn’t want to pay her money for child support because of his ill feelings towards her. My ex pulled the same crap on me. Custody was secondary. He simply didn’t want to pay ME because of our friction. It’s just too bad that DWade’s ex can’t find the strength to stop playing into his ploy, and fight him back.